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Letter & Advice

Submitted on: August 13, 2008
Letter: Okay so my friend Dee wants to take up lacrosse and i play lacrosse. She isn't that athletic and i told her to join to show my other friend Nicole that hanging out at home isn't what you should do and you should have fun in high school. Right now we are doing conditioning for it and i am scared that she will be better then me. I can outrun her and i actually last the pratices (she doesn't always). I am scared that the coaches will choose her to play over me. and i am scared that i wont be able to play anymore.. or as much. what should i do?! i know she isn't as fast but idk. and i always feel bad *thinking* that she shouldn't play. idk if she will even play next year and idk why but its bothering me, i wish she could choose if she stays or not. sorry if i am getting carried away. what should i do?! how do i deal with it?

My Advice: It's always hard being in competition with friends, especially if it's something you want more. If she makes it, try to be happy for her, it's normal to feel a little upset about it. From what you've told me though, I'm thinking you will most likely be the one chosen to play because she lacks certain skills that you have. Personally, I've had a situation like this as well, where I've been jealous of a friend because she made something and I didn't. Just remember, there's other things to get involved in and try not to let it interfere with your friendship, just try your best to cheer her on and support her, that's what friends are for and just think of it as having fun, don't get too caught up in the wrong thoughts. Try to block the bad thoughts about it out.

Letter & Advice

Submitted on: August 5, 2008
Letter: im just starting highschool this year, and im extremely nervous. my friends arent the type to be comforting about the whole thing, and i just dont know what to expect. is there anything i should know before i go?

My Advice: Well, high school is somewhat of a big transition from junior high and elementary school, it's not the same. The whole four years of high school is just preparing you for college basically. So, usually teachers aren't going to baby you, you're expected to be more mature and be more responsible. Also, high school tends to be more "clique-ish", like cheerleaders, band members, clubs, etc. So, I would recommend in the beginning of the year find something you can be involved in and be a part of. A lot of times when people get into high school they change and become more busy, this may happen with your friends. The reason is because there's more to do, more to get involved in, more people to meet, etc. You may not even have the same friends at the end of the year as you'll meet new people. Just take it one day at a time though, don't be too nervous, you'll get used to it and then it won't be a big deal at all.

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Submitted on: July 30, 2008
Letter: Ok so I know that school is not in session yet but I need help for this upcoming year.. My parents are TOTALLY obsessed with me and my math grades. I had skipped a level last year and went to the next level and I barely passed (two c-'s and one c). I think I have to take it again since you had to get a B or higher to keep going. My parents go insane over this subject. They tell me to just "practice" math instead of doing my other homework! I get A's and B+'s in ALL my other subject, and I'm in honors classes too! They put so much pressure on me, and they always want me to be like my older sister, who is basically perfect. I try to tell them that I'm doing my best and I'm trying as hard as I can, but they still think it's not good enough! I just really want to convince them that I'm NOT my older sister and I never will be! :(

My Advice: You're doing the right thing by just trying as hard as you can, that's what counts. I think you should just talk to your parents and let them know exactly how you feel. Let them know you are your own person, not your sister. You are both two different people and will follow two different paths in life. It will be easier the older you get though, but when you're younger, your parents just look out for your best interest and want what's best for you, in this case your parents are just being overly aggressive with wanting you to succeed. In a sense, it is a good thing that your parents want to push you to get the best grades because it will benefit you in the end, but at the same time, you may crack under all that pressure. So, you definately need to talk to them, let them know you are trying your best and math is just not your strongest subject and I'm sure they know this already, they just want to make sure that you will reach your full potential. Just continue to try your best that's all you can really do.